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CHAPTER
XVIII. The Old
Burying-Ground, with epitaphs and Notices of Some Who Lie There – Other
Burial-Places and Cemeteries – Memorial Day – Ancient Funeral
Customs
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“The cold dark grave - there is no care,
No pain nor gloom,
Within the tomb;
The wicked cease from troubling
there."
"IT is wise for us to
recur to the history of our ancestors. Those who do not look upon themselves as
a link connecting the post with the future, in the transmission of life from
their ancestors to their posterity - do not perform their duty to the world. To
be faithful to ourselves, we must keep our ancestors and posterity within reach
und grasp of our thoughts and affections - living in the memory and
retrospection of the past, and hoping with affection and care for those who are
to come after us. We are true to ourselves only when we act with becoming pride
for the blood we inherit, and which we are to transmit to those who shall soon
fill our places." So wrote Daniel Webster, and who will not subscribe to its
truthfulness and wisdom? No apology is needed for the introduction of an
extended notice of the burial-places of Lynn, for such consecrated grounds
always possess a touching interest - to the old, because there lie the departed
kindred and friends of earlier years; to the young, because there they see, fast
gathering around, the loved ones from the broken household and the charmed
circle of glad companionship. In those often-shunned retreats lie those who have
made the history of the place; and who could be more worthy than they of
grateful remembrance?
One of the first
objects in commencing a settlement was to select a suitable place for the burial
of the dead, as all realize that such a place will surely be needed, whatever
other seeming necessities may be dispensed with. True, the dead would rest just
as quiclly by the stony wayside or in the weedy bog, as in a flowery bed or
beneath a marble monument; but to the sorrowing kindred there is something
repugnant in thinking of them as resting in a dreary, uncared-for spot. The
Indians, even, had great regard for the remains of their departed ancestors; and
woe betide the daring enemy who would desecrate the rude necropolis upon the
sunny hillside.
But yet with what
different feelings do the living think of the last resting-place they are
destined to occupy. Some would lie in a sequestered spot, where the soothing
dirge of sighing trees is ever heard; some would lie on the ocean shore, where
the spent waves murmur a ceaseless lament; some would lie in the art-adorned
cemetery, whither the steps of pensive wanderers may tend at thoughtful hours;
some would lie in the centre of the busy life they loved so well, but which no
longer can disturb or charm; and some would have their mortal remains dissolved
in the crucible of cremation. Says John Anster:
"If I might choose where my tired limbs shall lie
When my task here is done, the oak's green crest
Shall rise above my grave - a little mound
Raised in some cheerful village cemetery.
And I could wish that with unceasing sound
A lonely mountain rill was murmuring by
In music through the long soft twilight hour.
And let the hand of her whom I love best best
Plant round the bright, green grave those fragrant flowers
In whose deep bells the wild bee loves to rest.
And should the robin from some neighboring tree
Pour his enchanted song - Oh ! softly tread,
For sure if aught of earth can soothe the dead,
He still must love that pensive melody."
And then our own Lewis
pleadingly enjoins:
"O, bury me not In the dark old woods,
Where the sunbeams never shine;
Where mingles the mist of the mountain floods
With the dew of the dismal pine
!
But bury me deep by the bright blue sea,
I have loved in life so well;
Where the winds may come to my spirit free,
And the sound of the ocean shell.
"O, bury me not in the churchyard old.
In the slime of the doleful tomb !
Where my bones may be thrust, ere their life is cold,
To the damp of a drearier gloom !
But bury me deep by the bright blue sea.
Where the friends whom I love have been;
Where the sun may shine on the grass turf free,
And the rains keep it ever green ! "
And thus sings
Beattie:
"Let vanity adorn the marble tomb
With trophies, rhymes, and scutcheons of renown:
Mine be the breezy hill that skirts the down;
Where a green grassy turf is all I crave
With here and there a violet bestrown,
Fast by a brook or fountain's murmuring wave;
And many an evening sun shine sweetly on my grave."
The early settlers,
with most unaccountable irreverence, had little regard for the resting-places of
their dead, often allowing rank weeds and brambles to flourish, and wandering
animals to roam at will over the reserved acres. Whittier alludes to this in
these touching lines:
"Our vales are sweet with fern and rose,
Our hills are maple-crowned;
But not from them our fathers chose
The village burylng-ground.
"The dreariest spot in all the land
To death they set apart;
With scanty grace from Nature's hand,
And none from that of art."
But these later generations
of their children have in a measure atoned for their strange remissncss by
consecrating beautiful cemeteries, in which sometimes appear monuments so costly
and decorative that the mind is liable to be led from meditation on the virtues
of those they commemorate to admiration of them as works of art or
disapprobation of them as monuments of ostentation und extravagance.
THE OLD BURYING-GROUND of
Lynn is in the westerly part of the city. It is not known with certainty when
the first interments were made there. The stones are no certain index, for the
oldest one bears the date 1698, and multitudes must have been buried there
before that time. There rest the early fathers and mothers of the place, and
many whose talents and virtuous deeds made them conspicuous in their own day and
generation.
The first burial in this
ancient place, so far as is certainly known, was in 1637, when the remains of
John Bancroft, ancestor of the distinguished historian and statesman, George
Bancroft, were laid there. And it was on the 1st of April, 1687, that the
remains of Thomas Newhall, the first white person born in Lynn, was buried
there, He had died at the age of fifty-seven years. The oldest stone bears this
inscription : "Here lyeth ye body of John Clifford. Died June ye 17, 1698, in ye
68 year of his age." The figure nine, by some sacrilegious intruder, was, eighty
years ago, altered in a rough way, so as to resemble two, and that has led some
to the erroneous belief that there was a burial here as early as 1628.
For some two centuries no
complete record of interments here seems to have been kept, but since the law
required, the town and city clerks have been faithful in recording.
Mr. John T. Moulton, a
worthy native, a few years since had all the inscriptions copied and published
in the Peabody Institute Collections, - a labor of love for which he is
deserving of the highest commendation.
A few of the epitaphs in
this ancient gathering-place of the dead will be given; but it will be borne in
mind that it very often happens that the name of one of the most worthy and
useful is not so perpetuated, while that of another, whose memory elicits no
sentiment of reverence, is blazoned on a pompous monument. It should be borne in
mind, too, that many, inspired by ardent love for their native place, were
overtaken by the fell destroyer when far away, never again to meet those of
their generation till the sea gives up her dead.
Churchyard lore is not
usually very refined in diction, however tender in sentiment, and the simple,
unlettered record is sometimes more touching than the studied and stately. But a
countless multitude, of whose names even there is no record, are there at rest,
among them, perhaps, " some mute, inglorious Milton," or some heroic Washington.
Certainly a host of the godly men and women of the early days are sleeping
there, to be aroused only at the last trumpet's sound; and theirs must be the
brightest dreams, should dreams come in that night ot centuries.
"Sure the last end
Of the good man is peace. How calm his exit !
Night dews fall not more gently on the ground
Nor weary, worn-out winds expire so soft."
The few epitaphs for which
space can be afforded in this connection will, for convenience, be arranged
alphabetically.
“In memory of Rev. Thomas F. Alexander, pastor of the Second Christian
Church in Lynn, who died April 2, 1838, aged 23 years.
“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints. – Ps. 116,
15.
"O Church ! to whom this youth was dear,
The angel of thy mercy here,
Behold the path he trod.
A milky-way through midnight skies;
Behold the grave in which he lies;
Even from this day thy Pastor cries
Prepare to meet thy God."
Few ever had the capacity
to so win the esteem of the young people of his generation as did this youthful
clergyman. He possessed uncommon talents and an uncommonly felicitous way of
expressing his views and convictions. He mingled freely with those of all
denominations, was neither bigoted nor heterodox, and his early death was deeply
felt as a serious loss to the community.
"In memory of Mr. Zachariah Atwill, who died November 6, 1836. Aet. 81.
"Mark the perfect man and behold the upright, for the end of that man is
peace."
Mr. Atwill was a
Revolutionary soldier. At one time he lived in the ancient house that stood on
the centre of the Common, a little west of the pond, but now stands on the
easterly side of Whiting Street and which is the oldest building in Lynn of
which the date of erection is positively known. It was built in 1682 for the
residence of the parish sexton. Mr. Atwill kept the almshouse for many years
before its removal, in 1819, from the corner of Essex and Chestnut Streets to
Tower Hill. A son of his, Zachariah, Jr., was a sea captain, and, it is said,
crossed the Atlantic some fifty times without the loss of a seaman.
"Here lyes ye body of Mr. Thomas Baker, who died October ye 3d 1734, aged
81 years."
Mr. Baker was drafted
November 13, 1675, to serve in King Philip's War, and was in the Narragansett
fight. In 1694 he was a member of the Ancient and Honorable Artillery, and is
spoken of more at large in other pages of this sketch.
"In memory of Amos Ballard
(son of Mr. John Ballard, of Boston), who was deprived of his life by the
accidental discharge of a musket in a canoe in Lynn River, on the 25th of
August, 1798. AEtat 77.
"The grave hath eloquence, its lectures teach
In silence louder than divines can preach;
Hear what It says, ye sons of folly, hear;
It speaks to you; lend an attentive ear."
“In memory of Mr. Josiah
Breed, who died December 12, 1790, in the 59th year of his age.
"Death is a debt to nature due;
Which I have paid, and so must you."
"Here lyes buried ye body of Doct Henry Burchsted, a
Silesian, who died Septbr xx, Anno Christi, MDCCXXI. AEtatis Suae LXIIII.
"Silesia to New England
sent this man.
To do their all that any
healer can,
But he who conquered all
diseases must
Find one who throws him down into the dust
A chymist near to an adeptist come,
Leaves here, thrown by his caput mortuum
Reader, physicians die as others do;
Prepare, for thou to this art hastening too."
"My wldow'd mother,
My only
earthly friend,
Erected this monument
To tell each traveller.
Who looks
this way,
That underneath this stone
Rests the ashes of her only son,
Josiah Burrage, who died Dec. 13th, 1797,
Aged 21
years.
Oft do we see the tender bud of hope.
Opening its beauties to the morning light,
When lo! a frost cuts down the tender plant,
And levels all our prospects with the dust."
"Here lyes buried the body of the Honorable John Burrill, Esq, who died
Decembr 10th Anno Christi, MDCCXXI. AEtatis
LXIV.
"Alas ! our patron’s dead ! the country – court -
The church - in tears, all echo the report;
Grieved that no piety, no mastering sense,
No counsel, gravity, no eloquence,
No generous temper, gravitating to
Those honors, which they did upon him throw,
Could stay his fate, or their dear Burrill save
From a contagious sickness and the grave,
The adjacent towns this loss reluctant bear,
But widowed Lynn sustains the greatest share:
Yet joys in being guardian of his dust
Until the resurrection of the just."
The residence of Mr.
Burrill was on the western slope of Tower Hill, and there he died, leaving no
children. The "contagious sickness" which proved fatal was small-pox. He was
well known throughout the province, was much in public life, and sustained a
high reputation as a legislator. He was ten years Speaker of the House, and
greatly respected for his ability and urbanity in conducting public
business.
"In memory of Mr. Thomas Cheever, a soldier of the Revolution, who died
Jan. 28, 1823, AEt. 90.
“Receive, O earth, his faded form,
In thy cold bosom let it lie,
Safe
let it rest from every storm,
Soon must it rise, no
more to die."
"The Rev. Joshua W. Downing, A. M. Died July 15, 1839, aged 26.”
Mr. Downing was one of
Lynn's most promising young men. He was a son of Elijah Downing, a
cabinet-maker, who lived on North Common Street, corner of Park. He graduated at
Brown University, and at first intended to pursue the profession of law, but
becoming converted, he joined the Methodist Conference, and soon became one of
the most acceptable preachers in the denomination, insomuch that at the time of
his decease he was in charge of one of the oldest and most opulent churches of
the order in New England, - the Bromfield Street Church, in Boston."
“This monument is inscribed to the memory of John Flagg,
Esq., in whom remarkable temperance, uniform prudence, unaffected modesty,
affectionate humanity and diffusive benevolence shone conspicuous among the
virtues which graced his character, endeared him to his family and friends, and
secured him the respect and love of all who had the happiness to know him.
"As a physician, his skill
was eminent, and his practice extensive and successful.
“To Death, whose triumph he
had so often delayed and repelled, but could not entirely prevent, he at last
himself submitted on the 27th of My, 1793, in the 50th year of his age.
"Heav'n now repays his virtues and his deeds,
And endless life the stroke of death succeeds."
Dr. Flagg graduated at
Cambridge in 1761, and eight years after settled as a physician in Lynn, where
he soon, by his integrity, affability and skill, won the esteem and confidence
of all. He was active and patriotic during the trying Revolutionary period, was
a member of the Committee of Safety in 1775, and commissioned as a colonel. Dr.
James Gardner, for many years a public-spirited and highly-respected
practitioner here, married his only daughter. Dr. Flagg lived at the eastern end
of Marion Street, in the same house in which the famous merchant, William Gray,
was born some twenty years before.
"George Gray, the Lynn Hermit, a native of Scotland, died
at Lynn, Feb. 28, 1848, aged 78 years."
This eccentric individual
lived alone for many years in what was, at tbe time of his appearance, a retired
and forlorn retreat, little better than a brambly bog, though near a public
road. Further notice of him appears elsewhere.
“This monument is erected to the memory of Mr. Samuel Hart,
son of Mr. Joseph & Eunlce Hart. Obt. July 18, 1802, AEt. 24.
" Farewell to friends, to
science & to time,
God bids me leave you all,
though in my prime,
Parents, mourn not, though
I'm the fourth young son
That God hath called, he
still doth leave you one,
Grieve not for me, but for
the living grieve,
'Tis they who die, it is
the dead who live."
The writer of this sketch
well remembers hearing in early childhood, a sister of the deceased often speak
in the most affectionate terms of his lovely character, especially of his
amiability. He seems to have been ambitious of leaving tbe toilsome occupation
of farmer, and preparing for usefulness in some learned profession, and was a
student - in Harvard College, it is believed - at the time of his death. The
family greatly mourned his loss, and the whole neighborhood partook in the
sorrow. The epitaph refers to three brothers who had gone before him, leaving
him the last but one of all the sons of the stricken parents. The epitaphs of
these three follow, and they are all uncommonly impressive in sentiment and
tenderly expressed:
"Sacred to the memory of
Joseph & Burrill Hart, Obt. Nov. 15th & Dec. 8th, 1786, Aet. 18 & 11
years, Sons of Joseph and Eunice Hart.
"These lovely youths
resigned their breath,
Prepared to live & ripe
for death;
You blooming youths who
view this stone,
Learn early death may be
your own.
The Lord who hath all
sov'reign power.
Cut short the lovely
opening flower.
The sister's joy, the
parent's hope,
Submit to death's
relentless stroke."
“Sacred to the memory of Joseph Burrill Hart, son of Mr.
Joseph & Mrs. Eunice Hart, who died Nov. 19, 1795, Aged 7 years.
"His opening mind a thousand charms reveal’d,
Proof of those thousands which were still conceal’d,
The loveliest flow'r in nature's garden plac'd,
Permitted just to bloom and pluck'd in haste,
Angels beheld him ripe for joys to come.
And call’d by God's command their brother home."
Joseph Hart, the afflicted
father of these promising youths, was a farmer, and lived in the ancient house
that stood on Boston Street at the corner of North Federal. He owned all the
land on the west side of the street up to Walnut, and raised corn, potatoes and
the usual products for family consumption, together with large quantities of
flax, which was wrought into a durable though not elegant kind of cloth. Mrs.
Eunice Hart, mother of the deceased youths, was a granddaughter of Hon. Ebenerer
Burrill, who occupied the extensive farm at Swampscott, a portion of which was
lately owned by the Hon. E. R. Mudge, deceased. The ancient farm-house in which
Mr. Burrill lived is still standing near the elegant stone villa of Mr. Mudge.
“To the memory of Deacon Ezra Hitchings, who wai born April
15, 1765, and died Nov. 26, 1829. This stone is erected by the members of the
Second Congregational Church In Lynn, of which, from its formation, he was an
able and efficient officer, as a testimonial of the profound respect and love
for his integrity and benevolence, his piety as a Christian and his worth as a
man.
“The memory of the just
is blessed."
The Second Congregational
Church of Lynn was the first Unitarian, and to the present day remains the only
society of that denomination here. Major Hitchings, to use the military title by
which he was popularly known, was a native of that part of Lynn which is now
Saugus. His wife, who was a woman of much force of character, was a sister of
Colonel James Robinson, a soldier of the Revolution, and first postmaster of
Lynn. They had no children of their own, but adopted one or two, whom they
reared with the watchful care of true parents. Mr. Hitchings kept a West India
goods store on Boston Street, corner of North Federal, and did a fair village
business, though it yielded nothing beyond a comfortable maintenance.
"Sacred to the memory of Benjamin Massey, who was born Nov. 19, 1786, and
died Dec. 10, 1831.
“Reader, a moment pause before
this stone;
It tells a husband, father, Christian gone;
These sacred names he bore; but oh, how well
Must faithful memory, not the marble, tell;
Enough, if in this hard white stone you see
His strong, firm will - his spotless purity."
The loss of Mr. Massey to
the community was seriously felt. He was an active, useful citizen, his services
being in constant demand wherever strict personal integrity and prudence were
required. He took an important part in the management of public affairs, and
filled several of the higher offices of public trust. At the organization, in
1828, of the Lynn Mutual Fire Insurance Company, that still remarkably
successful institution, he was chosen secretary, and held the office till his
death. He was an industrious blacksmith, his shop and dwelling being on Western
Avenue, a few rods west of Federal Street.
"Alonzo Lewis, died January 21, 1861, aged slxty-six years and five
months.
"Frances, his wife, died
May 27, 1839.
"All angels now, and little less while here."
This is the resting-place
of Mr. Lewis, the poet and historian. In the neat liltle burial inclosure are
two or three chaste marble stones, unpretentious but strikingly appropriate. As
Mr. Lewis is spoken of somewhat at large in another place, nothing further need
be said here. The other inscriptions in the inclosure, however, should be given,
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"Frances Maria.
Aurelius.
Lynnworth.
Ina.
Alonso Lewis, Jr.
Died March 7,1852.
Irene Lewis.
Died March 26,1853.
Mary Lewis,
Died Jan. 28, 1878.
William Lewis,
Born 1596.
Died 1671.
Amey, his wife.
Isaac Lewis, Jr.,
Born 1683.
Died 1763.
Hannah, His wife.
Nathan Lewis,
Born 1721.
Died 1804.
Mary, his wife.
Zachariah Lewis,
Born 1765.
Died 1810.
Mary, His wife."
(Five Generations.)
" Here lyes buried ye body
of Ensign Joseph Newhall, aged 47 years. Departed this life January ye 29,
1705."
This Mr. Newhall was a man
of some note and much respected. In 1696 the town granted him liberty to "Sett
up a pewe in ye east end of ye meetinghouse Between ye east dowre & the
stares." He was, at the time of his death, a member of the General Court, and
perished in a great snow-storm while on his way from Boston. It was a violent
storm, continuing two days - the 29th and 30th of January. He was a son of
Thomas Newhall, the first white person born in Lynn, and the father of eleven
children, all of whom survived him. Many descendants of his are yet remaining in
Lynn.
"Here lies buried the body of Mr Zackeus Norwood, who departed this life
Feb. the 8th, 1756, aged 40 years."
"Here lyes buried the body of Doct Jonathan Norwood, who departed this
life March 16th, 1782, in ye 31st year of his age."
These two stones are in
memory of father and son. Zacheus, the father, was keeper of the old Anchor
Tavern, which, as "Norwood's Tavern," augmented in fame to the close of
provincial days. He is spoken of elsewhere in these pages. Dr. Jonathan, the
son, was a well-educated physician, and lived on the north side of the Common,
between Mall and Park Streets. He graduated at Harvard in 1771. His death, March
16, 1782, was occasioned by injuries received by a fall from his horse.
“In memory of Mr. Isaac Orgin, who died May 29th, 1831, AEt. 70.
“Afflictions sore long time I bore,
Physicians strove in vain,
Till God did please to give him ease,
And take away my pain.”
Mr. Orgin was one of the youthful patriots who took the field in the
Revolution, and is said to have been some time a drummer.
“Here lies buried the body of Mr. William Perkins, a gentleman of liberal
education. He was bred at Harvard College, and commenced Master of Arts in ye
year 1761. He was justly admired for his uncommon abilities, matural and
acquired; his literature, exemplary piety, modesty, meekness, and many other
humane and Christian vlrtues which rendered him lovely in every relation of
life. He died of a fever Octr ye 9, 1765, and in the 28th year of his age."
“Mary Pitcher.
1738-1813."
This simple inscription on a neat headstone perpetuates the name of one
who attained a world-wide reputation as "Moll Pitcher, the fortune-teller of
Lynn." A somewhat extended notice of her may be found elsewhere in these
pages.
"The First Church of Christ In Lynn erected this monument to the memory
of their faithful and much esteemed brother, Deacon Nathaniel Sargent. He died
September 23, 1798, aged 38 years.
"I am the resurrection and the life saith the Redeemer."
"The Tomb of Rev. Jeremiah Shepard. The memory of the just is blessed.
Mrs. Mary Shepard died March 28, 1710, Aet. 53. A prudent wife is from the Lord.
Prov. xxxi. 10 & 28: the Mother of 9 children: 5 died, Jeremiah, 1700, Aet.
23: Mehetabel, 1688: Margaret, 1683: Thomas, 1709, Aet. 29: Francis, 1692.
“Rev. Jeremiah Shepard died June 2, 1720, Aet. 72."
“Elijah’s mantle drops, the prophet dies,
His earthly mansion quits, and moonts the skies.
So Shepard's gone.
His precious dust, death's
prey, indeed is here,
But nobler breath 'mong seraphs
does appear;
He joins the adoring crowds about the
throne,
He 's conquered all, and now he wears the
crown."
A notice of this venerable minister appears in another connection.
"How uncertain are human enjoyments !"
“From gratitude, respect and endearing recollection, this stone is
erected in remembrance of Mrs. Jane & Sally Tufts, consort & daughter of
Mr. David Tufts, who died Nov. 15th & 16th, 1795, aged 28 years, the infant
1 day.
"Sacred to the memory of Mrs. Elizabeth Tufts, & daur, wife and
daur'of Mr. David Tufts, who obt. Aug. 20th & 22d, 1801. She aged 32 years,
the child Aet 5 hours.
“Why do we mourn departed friends
Or shake at death's alarms ?
‘Tis but the voice that Jesus sends
To call them to his arms."
"In memory of Mr. David Tufts, a soldier of the Revolution, who died July
6, 1823, Aet. 60.
"When coldness wraps this suffering clay,
Ah, whither strays the immortal mind?
It cannot die, it cannot stay,
But
leaves its darkened dust behind."
This Mr. David Tufts, whose singularly severe and affecting visitations
are here commemorated, lived in a comfortable two-story frame dwelling which
stood on what is now Western Avenue, at the northeast corner of Federal Street,
the site being now occupied by huge brick business buildings, and his land
extended nearly to Centre Street. His barn was opposite the west wing of Lynn
Hotel. As stated upon the stone, he was soldier of the Revolution, and must have
been in service while a mere boy. He drew a pension during the latter part of
his life, for though in the way of gaining a comfortable livelihood by farming
and expressing, in a small way, he was yet obliged to exercise industry and
economy. He kept his sword hanging above the head of his bed as a memento of his
early heroism. His last wife was Eunice, a daughter of Joseph Hart, of Boston
Street, and she survived him more than forty years. He left three sons, one of
whom was Deacon Richard Tufts, so long conspicuous for his rigid principles as a
temperance reformer, and so highly respected for his unswerving moral integrity.
He was a deacon of the First Congregational Church for many years, and died an
octogenarian. Col. Gardiner Tufts, whose efficient services in the interest of
the Massachusetts soldiers, during the Civil War and subsequently, were highly
appreciated, and who is yet doing efficient service under State appointment, was
a son of the deacon.
"John E. Weston, Minister of the Gospel, died July 2d,
1831, Aet. 35.
"He was ordained Oct. 1827, Pastor of the 2d Baptist Church
in Cambridge, and at the time of his death was pastor elect of the Baptist
Church, Nashua, N. H. It was while on a journey to Nashua to preach on the
ensuing Sabbath that he was drowned In Sandy Pond In Wilmington. This sudden and
afflictive event occurred in consequence of a deep bank near the edge of the
pond, from which, unperceived by him, he was precipitated with his carriage and
sank in death.
“Thus died a most excellent husband and
Father, a devoted and humble Christian, an
able and energetic minister, beloved by all,
and bearing the noble features of that Saviour
whom he delighted to honor."
In this venerable
resting-place of the dead repose the remains of three early ministers of the
First Church - Whiting, Shepard and Henchman - as well as the countless host of
other worthies - fathers and mothers of past generations - some of whom have
elsewhere come under notice.
"Life's labor done, securely laid
In this their last retreat.
Unheeded o'er their silent dust
The storms of life shall beat.
"The storm which wrecks the wintry sky
No more disturbs their deep repose
Than summer evening's gentlest sigh,
Which shuts the rose."
The other burial-places of
Lynn are as follows, arranged according to the dates of consecration:
THE FRIENDS' BURIAL-PLACE.
- This seems to have been set apart for its sacred purposes early in the last
century, probably in or about the year 1723, as is found that Richard Estes
conveyed to the Friends Society an eligible lot of land at the corner of the
present Broad and Silsbee Streets, "in consideration of the love and good will "
he bore " to ye people of God called Quakers, in Lyn," by a deed dated the
"seventeenth day of the tenth month, called December, in ye ninth year of the
reign of King George, in the year of our Lord, according to the English account,
one thousand seven hundred and twenty-two." The land was given "unto ye people
aforementioned to bury their dead in, and to erect a meeting-house for to
worship God in: I say those in true fellowship of the gospell unity with the
monthly meeting, and
those are to see to ye Christian
burying as we have been in ye practice of." In 1826 the remains of a hundred and
nine persons were removed from the old Friends' Burying-ground in Boston, and
deposited in this at Lynn, the reason being that the society at Boston had
become virtually extinct and their ground disused. Considerable feeling,
however, was manifested by some, and Joseph Hussey refused to permit the removal
of the remains of his two sisters to Lynn, preferring to have them deposited in
King's Chapel ground. This burial-place is conveniently and pleasantly situated,
near the house of worship, and has a number of neat memorial stones, without
cosily or gairish display. And in it rest a goodly number of Lynn's most prudent
and worthy sons and daughters. Adjoining this ground is another, opened in 1825,
as free burial-place; the reason for the proceeding being that the society
refused to permit the interment
of a child in their
ground without a compliance with their regulations.
THE EASTERN BURIAL-PLACE,
on Union Street, was opened in 1812, is neatly kept, and contains the dust of
many worthy ones.
PINE GROVE CEMETERY was
consecrated on the afternoon of Wednesday, July 24,1850. The weather was warm,
but the sky was clear, and a great concourse attended. The exercises, conducted
amid such picturesque and inspiring surroundings, were extremely impressive. The
address was delivered by Rev. Charles C. Shackford, minister of the Unitarian
Society. Several other clergymen took part in the exercises. An original ode, by
G. W. Putnam, and original hymns, by Mr. Joseph W. Nye, Miss Anna H. Phillips
and Miss Annie Johnson, were sung.
This beautiful
burial-place is surpassed by very few in the country for its picturesque natural
features, its stately trees, fine shrubbery and flower-studded inclosures, as
well as for its graceful and noble monuments. The first burial took place on
Sunday, October 13,1850; and the total number of interments up to January 1,
1886, was nine thousand six hundred, four hundred and sixty-five having taking
place during 1885. As to the pecuniary receipts and disbursements, it may in
brief be stated that for the year 1885 the City Council appropriated $8000; to
that was added, from sale of lots, $5176.50; from interments, $1480.50 ; from
care of lots, $2673.59; and from various other sources sufficient to make a
total of $19,509.86. The expenditures for labor, grading and the numerous other
needful purposes were $19,310.99.
ST. MARY'S (ROMAN CATHOLIC) CEMETERY, which comprises eight acres, is
situated on Lynnfield Street, near the suburban village of Wyoma. It was
consecrated on Thursday, November 4, 1858, by Bishop Fitzpatrick, assisted by
six other clergymen. A violent storm prevailed on the day of consecration, and
the services, so far as they properly could be, were held in the church, where
the rite of confirmation was administered to some two hundred persons.
ST. JOSEPH'S (ROMAN
CATHOLIC) CEMETERY, on Boston Street, in the northeastern outskirts, was
consecrated by Archbishop Williams, in the afternoon of Thursday, October 16,
1879. number of clergymen from neighboring places were present. Eighteen burials
had taken place there before the day of consecration. In the forenoon of the day
of the ceremony the rite of confirmation was administered in the parish church,
by the archbishop, to about a hundred and twenty-five children.
ALMSHOUSE GROUND. - A small
lot was set apart on the Almshouse grounds for the burial of deceased inmates.
But no burials are now made there.
At the present time the
burials are chiefly made in the three cemeteries, the whole number in 1886
having been as follows: In Pine Grove Cemetery, 375; in St. Mary's, 207 ; in St.
Joseph's, 46; in the Eastern ground, 58; in the Old, or Western ground, 3; in
the Friends', 5 - making a total of 694. But the number of deaths during the
year was 836, the remains of 142 being taken out of town for interment. In 1885
the number of deaths was 828, of which 148 were by consumption, 21 by
diphtheria, 14 by typhoid fever, 70 by pneumonia, 34 by cholera infantum, 9 by
scarlet fever. Of children under five years, 278.
It may be added that the
old burying-ground at Lynnfield was opened about the year 1720, and that at
Saugus about 1732, both of those towns being then a part of Lynn.
The interesting ceremony of
strewing with flowers the graves of soldiers who fell in the Civil War has been
devoutly observed in Lynn. Once a year - on the 30th of May, which has been
established as a legal holiday and called Memorial Day - under the auspices of
the local post of the Grand Army of the Republic, the surviving comrades proceed
in procession, with appropriate music, to the various burial- places, and there,
upon the graves of the departed companions-in-arms, reverentially deposit their
floral offerings. The custom began here in 1868, in accordance with the
manifesto of General Logan, commander-in-chief of the association, issued at
Washington. The occasion calls out crowds of people, old and young. A patriotic
address by a comrade, delivered in some convenient place, follows the ceremony.
Did our limits allow, it
would not be impertinent to say a few words touching what may be called modern
extravagances at funerals. The expenditures for casket, floral decorations and
carriages have become really burdensome to persons of limited means. Many seem
to think it mean not to follow the fashion in these matters, and mean also to
question any charge of those who furnish essentials or decorations. Can
ostentatious display relieve a truly grieving heart? Can gairish pomp and
glitter at the grave give joy to the departed? It would, indeed, be heathenish
to avoid a proper manifestation of respect and affection for deceased friends;
but is it not sometimes the case that respect and affection are marked by
over-wrought display? In early New England times the dead were committed to
their last resting-places with very little ceremony beyond the procession of
mourning friends; the coffin was rude; and seldom was a prayer offered, an
omission which it seems hard to account for, excepting on the ground of anxiety
to avoid anything that approached the Romish custom of praying for the dead.
Lechford, writing in 1641, says, " At burials nothing is read, nor any funeral
sermon made, but all the neighborhood, or a good company of them, come together
by tolling of the bell, and carry the dead solemnly to his grave and there stand
by him while he is buried. The ministers are most commonly present." As to
prayers at funerals, Drake, in his "History of Boston," in speaking of the
funeral of the wife of Judge Byfield, who was a daughter of Governor Leverett,
and died December 21, 1730, remarks: "At her funeral a prayer was made, which
was the first introduction of the practice in the town." And a Boston paper,
speaking of the same funeral, says : "Before carrying out the corpse, a funeral
prayer was made by one of the pastors of
the old
church, which, though a custom in country towns, is a singular instance in this
place." So much for the religious exercises at burials. And now a word touching
some peculiar extravagances at times indulged in.
Before the beginning of the
last century some strange customs began to appear, and expenditures were made
for purposes much more reprehensible than any extravagance of the present day.
Indeed, funerals were sometimes made seasons of absolute jollification.
Spirituous liquors were provided in abundance, and scarfs, gloves and rings
presented. The General Court, in 1724, prohibited the giving of scarfs on such
occasions, "because a burdensome custom." At the funeral of Rev. Mr. Cobbet, who
preached in Lynn nineteen years (1637-56), were expended one barrel of wine, £6
8s.; two barrels of cider, 11s.; 82 pounds of sugar, £2 1s.; half a cord of
wood, 4s.; four dozen pairs of gloves, "for men and women," £5 4s.; with "some
spice and ginger for the cider." It was not Lynn, however, that had the honor of
providing thus liberally for the obsequies of Mr. Cobbet, for he had left here a
number of years before, and settled in Ipswich. But in 1711 Lynn paid for half a
barrel of cider for the Widow Dispaw's funeral. It was generous of the town to
see that even a poor widow's remains should not be laid away without some
inducement for neighbors to attend the last rites, if no feeling of bereavement
existed. And there is a temptation to add the account of expenditures at the
funeral of Rev. Mr. Brown, of Reading, in 1733, partly for the purpose of
showing the cost of some things required in those days on such mournful
occasions:
" To Thomas Eaton, for provisions
2 1 0
Nathaniel
Eaton for fetching up the wine 0 15 0
Lt.
Nathaniel Parker for 5 qts. Rhom, [rum] 0 8 0
Samuel
Pool for digging Mr. Brown's grave 0 8 0
Landlord
Wesson, for Rhom, [rum] 0 10 0
Wm.
Cowdry, for making the coffin 0 15 0
Andrew
Tyler, of Boston, 6 gold rings for funeral 10 18 0
Benj.
Fitch, of Boston, Gloves, etc. 17 0 0
Mrs.
Martha Brown, for wine furnished 5 0 0
Eben
Storer, of Boston, sundries 8 0 0
Total 45 15 6.
"The old burying-grounds
embody a history of the early settlements. The "cemeteries " of modern time
exhibit the taste and wealth of later days. But it would be unkind to assume
that either is not the bourn of true human sympathy and affection. The remains
of high or low, rich or poor, wherever and whenever committed to the keeping of
mother earth, occasion pangs of sorrow in some surviving breast; there are none
so poor or miserable as to be void of this. To the indigent mourner there is
substantial consolation in the thought that at the grave all earthly
distinctions end; but far greater consolation in the conviction that for a
virtuous life passed here a great reward awaits upon the other side of the dark
vale. To the true duty-doer, as he draws near the bourn that cannot be repassed,
the words of the great poet of our own Essex come as a refreshing breath from
that other land, -
"O stream of life, whose swifter flow
Is of the end forewarning.
Methlnks thy sundown afterglow
Seems less of night than morning."
There is surely no place
better fitted for sombre reflection than that where lie the gathered dead of
generations. But why sombre?
"All that tread
The globe are but a handful to the tribes
That slumber in its bosom."
And among them, in peaceful
rest, are the good and great, the beautiful and buoyant. What is there doleful
in such company? Meditations of the most cheerful kind may well be entertained.
And soothing would it be to many a tired spirit could it occasionally respond to
the poet's sentiment and say:
"At musing hour of twilight gray,
When silence reigns around,
I love to walk the churchyard way –
To me ‘tis holy ground.
To me congenial is the place,
Where yew and cypress grow –
I love the moss-grown stone to trace,
That tells who lies below."
Yes, indeed, to a mind so
touched, many a rough passage of life would be made smooth, for step by step
more fully would be perceived the utter hollowness of all mere earthly promises,
and the emptiness of earth's bubbles, wealth, honor and fame. The pursuit of
wealth especially, which is with us so marked a feature, would soon appear like
senseless phantom chasing. Pausing at the merely rich man's grave, the racy
lines of Swift might well obtrude:
“The sexton shall green sods on thee bestow;
Alas, the sexton is thy banker now !
A dismal banker must that banker be,
Who gives no bills but of mortality."
And again:
" He that could once have half a kingdom bought,
In half a minute is not worth a groat.
His coffers from the coffin could not save,
Nor all his interest keep him from the grave.
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